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submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by Raebxeh@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

I’ve run across cis women making comments like this way too many times for it to not be A Thing. Usually it’s a reason given for them not being a lesbian. Something like, “I love boobs but vaginas are gross”. I’ve also seen it as a reason to not date trans men, but I feel like there’s something going on beyond standard genital preference discourse and the transphobia attached to that. Can someone explain this or am I just being weird?

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[-] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 15 points 8 months ago

Hm I've never met a woman that was afaik, is this common?

[-] HiImThomasPynchon@hexbear.net 20 points 8 months ago

"Are you uncomfortable with vaginas?" doesn't seem like something that would come up in conversation that often, IMO. Maybe you have.

[-] Raebxeh@hexbear.net 8 points 8 months ago

It keeps coming up in conversations I’m in and I don’t know why. Someone send help.

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