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this post was submitted on 08 Feb 2024
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Sounds like you have a lot to celebrate actually.
You've mentioned your accomplishments, they're something to be proud of.
But one of the hardest things in life to learn and accept is that we each have to be enough for ourselves, regardless of what anyone else thinks, says or does. I also struggle with this, but I've seen the truth of it.
Even if the whole world was against you (but we're not). The instant you base your worth on the opinions of others, you are setting yourself up to fail. Sometimes they'll love you, sometimes they'll hate you, mostly they will be indifferent. Is that where you want to be?
That's not to say you should go through life alone. You absolutely need a strong support network -- like all persecuted minorities, we need allies. That sounds like the final missing piece for you. First take a moment to recognize and appreciate allies you might already have, don't forget them in despair; and then work on expanding your network.
As for the toxic people in your life, don't give them the pleasure of bringing you down. Rise above and eclipse them, you got this <3