advice needed for a friend in danger (lemmy.ml)

submitted 10 months ago by jackpot@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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hey all, my friend lives in india and is in serious danger. a family member rapes them and has explicit imagery of them which they hold over their head if they ever speak out. no one in their family would believe them, the police dont care where tjeyre from, and the rapist is a wealthy violent criminal. i know it's distressing but what advice / help can you think of? im keeping them anonymous for obvious reasons. her life is ruined by this, it's been going on for years. she has given me permission to post this

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[-] ani@endlesstalk.org 24 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Contact serious organizations from India or International to help her, and to help you helping her, see:

Move her out from this dangerous environment she is in to a safe place. If you need funding for this, I would suggest creating a funding campaign online and announce it on all major social media (both Indian and English speaking public).
After she's safe, she will need a ton of time to recover mentally. To prevent re-victimization, see page 11 and forward on STOP SV: a technical package to prevent sexual violence.

Keep us update OP

this post was submitted on 24 Dec 2023

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