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Are fetishes inherently sexual? Because I have extremely sensitive skin that makes getting tickled feel amazing. Doesn't sexually arouse me or anything. I just like the feeling a lot.
I mean I'm the same way, and I wouldn't have described it as sexual, but then my partner tied me up and did it and it was very
My partner strapped me to the bed once and did it. Still wasn't turned on but damn it felt good.
Hard to define. Even as someone who's actively part of those communities, I struggle to define kink or fetish. The best I can come up with is "a sexual preference or a thing that brings about sexual enjoyment that deviates from social norms. Except it also doesn't have to be sexual."