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Hiya girlies!

From tomorrow I am visiting my partner's highly Catholic, Eastern European parents, so I will have to pretend to be a boy for like two weeks straight.

I already know I'm gonna feel disgusting when I get back.

So what things do you do to feel cute and feminine? I'd love to have some nice things to try when I am safe again.

Thank you <3

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[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 49 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I'm a female at birth, so not sure if I'm supposed to comment here, but I was just telling my husband earlier this week that layering makes me feel distinctly feminine! I wore a slip with a bit of lace at the bottom hem, and then a slightly shorter slip with extra fabric at the hem, then a dress over both for Thanksgiving for flowy peak a boo layers. The act of putting on several beautiful and soft and lovely layers that were pointless beyond being pretty made me feel so happy and girly :)

I hope you can find some stuff that makes you feel happy and girly :)

[–] Amelia_@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Oh wowww, that does sound super pretty and satisfying, I definitely need lots more soft and lovely layers!

Thank you for contributing, everyone's unique brand of femininity is valued and appreciated ❤️

[–] onevia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 11 months ago

Of course you're allowed to comment! And I'm not OP, but thank you for your insight! I love the idea of peak a boo layers. Never thought of it that way ❤️