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I don’t think any first time parent is ever going to be ready. If birthing is a fear you have, go for a c-section instead.
Kids are also very different from one another. Tantrums are not commonplace, it depends how you approach your kid when it is sad, upset etc.
PS: sorry for not linking you any articles. Choose whatever you feel works for you and your partner :)
That's terrible advice. A C-section is a major abdominal surgery, where you can't do much after, and for weeks. (This includes a carry limit of less than baby plus car seat)
Truly, if birthing is a problem, adopt. But if children are the problem, then maybe it's not for you.