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this post was submitted on 22 Oct 2023
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Haha I think 4chan is a completely different beast. I'm seeing quite differing opinions on the thread, which is cool. It's enlightening to see how people think about issues like this. I can see how both sides hold merit. Though in a way I disagree on simply telling people they're wrong. I feel you can't reason a person out of a position they didn't reason themselves into. In my experience, it's much more effective to ask people questions and maybe they begin to see, or not, it's out of my control at that point.
People don't generally want to argue other people out of positions, because they're not usually online to get into debates. A downvote isn't telling someone they're a bad person, it's feedback on a specific post, which the poster can ignore or use as information to try to improve whatever they're communicating. (Me, I do like to debate)