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[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 34 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (5 children)

So true. I don't want to be the hero. I want to be the lowly maid that gets constantly scolded by the noblewomen she is serving. And getting slapped, and verbally abused, and stepped on, and... crush

Of course just until I've levelled up enough and start a revolution against them, which will definitely succeed and not end up with me in a dungeon with all those torture instruments, and shackles, and... That's what he meant with adult games, right?

Alternatively, the Gothic and Risen games were nice to play. You really start from the absolute bottom and have to work your way up, while everyone treats you accordingly. Peak Euro jank

[–] EatMoreMacroplastics@hexbear.net 19 points 4 days ago (1 children)

certified transfem post of all times

[–] alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Please don't perpetuate the transphobic stereotype

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 18 points 4 days ago (1 children)

the hateful and cruel stereotype that transfems have fun sex doggirl-gloom

[–] tithonis@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago

I did not fight to get to where I am to have underwhelming sex tyvm

[–] EatMoreMacroplastics@hexbear.net 17 points 4 days ago (2 children)

"Please be a good little assimilationist without kinks" is kinda cringe tbh.

[–] alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Where did I even remotely say that?

Fucking 🤡

(HYG for your smart-assery tho: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/comment/28494754)

Like

certified transfem post of all times

is certified cyclejerk r/MtF shit

[–] EatMoreMacroplastics@hexbear.net 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Awwwwww no am i embarassing you in front of the cissies?#

To clarify, i haven't been on reddit in about 4 years or so and i've never set foot into r/MtF because it was obvious at first sight it's full of truscums like basically all trans subs on reddit.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I kinda am just a stereotype on two legs. Can't help it, sorry emilie-shrug

But to be more serious: I had suppressed my sexuality for a very long time. My first memory of experiencing dysphoria, which was at 4, was related to the one single fetish I have and it took 25 years until I finally managed to be at ease with something that I should've never been ashamed of in the first place. I fully understand the fear of being judged by cis supremacists and branded as perverts for being openly kinky, but honestly, overcoming your own self-hatred and insecurities to finally being able to enjoy the things you were always dreaming of enjoying is a very beautiful thing that even asexual trans peeps can hopefully appreciate

[–] alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

I don't have an issue with you being like that or you writing that here, sry if it came across like that.

Like I'm kinky and chronically online myself, OFC in a different form and with different interest (potato potato tho).

But I am not defined by that, it's not at the core of my being.
And I will not let myself and other trans women be defined by that, which is what I take issue with here...

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

sry if it came across like that.

To me it didn't come across like that at all. I fully understood what you wanted to say, which is why I told you my little story.

And I will not let myself and other trans women be defined by that, which is what I take issue with here...

It doesn't define me either. I'm just sick right now and wanted to do a little silly posting, like I always do. Humour makes my life a lot more bearable and EatMoreMacroplastics' comment did make me laugh quite a bit. That doesn't mean that I let this stereotype define me, it just means that I find it funny, especially since it's true to a degree

[–] alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

silly posting is fine and fun, I just hate that generalization :|

especially since it feeds into harmful stereotypes

As if trans people are responsible for harmful stereotypes and not transphobes. That's what i mean when i say that you sound like an assimilationist loser, you're playing the respectability politics game way too hard.

[–] chgxvjh@hexbear.net 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I mean Gothic is a chosen one story, it's just that barely anyone gives a shit.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Including the player, apparently. Had to look it up: The avatar of a god? Hmm... could've sworn it was just a himbo who just happened to be at the right place at the right time

[–] chgxvjh@hexbear.net 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

It comes up more in Gothic 2 and 3. In 2 it's mostly explained in the cutscenes that are often bugged and in Gothic 3 it's really difficult to give a shit about the story.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 3 points 4 days ago

explained in the cutscenes that are often bugged

Classic Gothic lol

[–] alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

What in the holy fetish 😭

Edit: /lh (for clarification)

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I wish I had all those fetishes, but I just have a single one. One that I hold very dear in my heart, don't get me wrong, but just a single one is pretty boring, so I wish I had more. It's not me being kinky but more like me wanting to be more kinky, I guess.

The world can be so unfair. So, so unfair catgirl-cry

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 13 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

I wish I had all those fetishes

you're in luck because this is maybe the most attainable goal ever

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago (3 children)

But how would someone as wholesome and innocent as me get those? Just keep having an open mind and experiment with all kinds of stuff, or do I have to actively call out for them, like: "Come here, ~~fishy~~ fetish, fetish, fetish"?

[–] Abracadaniel@hexbear.net 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Just tell yourself you deserve to be punished and mistreated for not having those as fetishes and it should work itself out.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 4 points 4 days ago

shocked-pikachu It's really that easy, huh?

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

gotta go on a lengthy journey of self-discovery where you seek out and master increasingly bizarre and esoteric fetishes doggirl-thumbsup

[–] bobs_guns@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 3 days ago

Journey to the Fet

[–] alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

I'm not sure if the "😭" clearly signified the joke here, will edit the comment

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 3 points 4 days ago

It did. Don't worry cat-trans

[–] bobs_guns@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 4 days ago

So real. So true.