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I'm a cis male and I believe in the importance of feminism, but I hesitate to call myself a feminist because it seems like there is a presumption of understanding women's experiences as if I was part of the Me Too movement. In some binary sense given how hateful and shitty men can be I'm absolutely a feminist, but I wouldn't declare myself to be one. What is your standpoint?

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[–] mlfh@lm.mlfh.org 44 points 3 days ago (10 children)

I was raised with Gloria Steinem's definition of feminism shaping my understanding, and have called myself a feminist since I was a child:

"A feminist is anyone who recognizes the equality and full humanity of women and men."

A more modern and inclusive version of that same idea, adopted by UN Women:

"Feminism is the belief that everyone, regardless of gender, should have equal rights and opportunities."

Feminism is a very complex grouping of movements and ideologies, but I think "membership" within them is very simple: if you believe in equality regardless of gender, you're a feminist.

[–] geneva_convenience@lemmy.ml 11 points 3 days ago (7 children)

How does it feel that the person who defined feminism for you was a CIA agent?

[–] t3rmit3@beehaw.org 0 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (5 children)

Are you implying that feminism is a CIA initiative?

[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Steinem worked with the CIA to promote reactionary propaganda and helped direct the women’s liberation movement into a corporate-friendly, anti-socialist direction.

Source: Jacobin

They didn't imply feminism is a CIA initiative, but the CIA definitely worked with her to influence the feminist movement.

[–] t3rmit3@beehaw.org 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Sure, because they cared about controlling the direction of the political movement, same way they influenced the Civil Rights movement. But once again, unless they are implying that the definition of feminism as offered by Steinem, quoted above, is part of a CIA influence op, or tainted by their influence, then what's the point of bringing that up?

[–] BanMeFromPosting@lemmy.ml -1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

To have a conversation? To get further insight into how a person thinks? To gain understanding? To talk about the ideological framework through which the person views the world, and hopefully gain some perspective out of that talk?

[–] t3rmit3@beehaw.org 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

If they truly intended it to be a neutral question, then they used a particularly bad choice of phrasing.

Most people understand the CIA is a tool of imperialist violence/authority, but framing that as "how does it feel to x" is clearly a condemnation of the association being pointed out, which in this case would only matter if that association itself in some way taints the topic it was brought up in response to... I.e. the definition of feminism by Steinem.

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