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The concept of it always struck me as ableist when described to me.

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[–] Blockocheese@hexbear.net 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Dude at my job was 100% serious and said there should be a term for men who want to date their girlfriends for more than just their appearance

It was in relation to her wanting to get a breast reduction but was afraid hed find her less attractive and he was really bragging to us about it

[–] SerLava@hexbear.net 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Reminds me of that 4chan screenshot where they were saying the people at Gainax seemed like they had an "adult woman fetish"

[–] Hermes@hexbear.net 14 points 1 day ago

Searching "adult woman fetish" shows porn and not a funny story for anyone wondering sadness