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Do you guys ever feel unlucky? (lemmy.zip)

submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by shojivr@lemmy.zip to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Do you guys ever feel unlucky to the point where you feel like you are being cursed?

as for me, i got unlucky streak this year non stop, such as :

i diagnosed with anxiety disorder and depression,
i lost my 4 years business over simple mistake,
i got third degree burn on both of my hand because of the hospital malpractice
even just for simple haircut somehow barber massage my head too strong, causing my head tense until now.
random lizard fell on my body at toilet around midnight, i have to take bath because of that.

at this point, i think world really tries to mess with me and wont let me live in peace.

2026 is truly worst year for me.

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[–] lnkr@staging3.plamenu.com 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

@shojivr@lemmy.zip Yeah, happens. I used to be very focused specifically on a nonstop failure chains, it took me a while to realize that, depending on your mood, you can attach much more significance and importance to individual setbacks than you did during a time when things were generally a little better. I found it to be an important realization to have and keep in mind, even while sometimes it really is just one crap after another with no mental workarounds about that

[–] shojivr@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

it seems i need to know how to improve my mood else things wont get better

[–] ChristchurchAsshole@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I spent the weekend sitting on my ass now it's sunday night and I didn't even do the things I told myself I would do haha

[–] shojivr@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

well no problem, most people spend their weekend doing something fun anyway.