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What I like to call temporal horror vacui. Some things are easy to start, they do require some periodic checking, but are otherwise passive. So I'll start a 3d print, get water boiling on the stove, or start running an offline backup. Then my mind is bothered that those are such "empty", "unproductive" tasks, and so reactively fills in the gaps with things I've been procrastinating like dishes, meal prep, planning, etc.
Also body doubling. For emails, I have a good friend at work who also massively struggles with them, so every now and then, we make a commitment to each other and for an hour or two, both sweep through our inboxes, with a bit of commiseration along the way.
Anyway, it's still a struggle that makes me wonder about seeking an ADHD evaluation ... next month maybe.