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For posting all the anonymous reactionary bullshit that you can't post anywhere else.

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I want to add it to my everyday vocabulary somehow

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[–] reaper_cushions@hexbear.net 41 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Just imagine ascribing such (or any, really) importance to “masculinity” and then have it be so fragile. Leading such an existence sounds like hell.

[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 31 points 4 days ago

Cismen r scared theyll get treated the same way they treat ppl who "fail" at masculinity/manhood

[–] Athena5898@hexbear.net 27 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I'm a genderfluid butch. Since coming out it's so fucking weird how people treat me because of the dominant fragile culture.

-I'll have people double check if its okay for me to touch a 'cute' thing.

-someone said "oh that's right, it must make you feel more masculine to carry groceries" when I offered to take them from someone because the person was complaining earlier that their body was sore. And I was in better health at the time.

-give me weird looks when I gush over something cute or get excited.

Its like, I do not prescribe to toxic masculinity and work very hard to weed it out. I do not want that miserable life. Why are you trying to put that on me. Stop it!!

[–] nine99@hexbear.net 4 points 3 days ago

yeah people get upset on your behalf, super uncomfortable. its funny because its something they themselves are imposing on you and getting upset about