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[โ€“] LostCarcosan@lemmy.today 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

You're a lost cause. The woman broke trust and respect immediately. Presumably they agreed to a date and, assuming you are capable of understanding social situations at all, a date on an app like Tinder is heavily implied to have a romantic purpose between two people unless otherwise specified, which this case it obviously was not. The woman who agreed to a date with the common understanding it would be between the two of them was extremely rude and disrespectful by bringing a third person unannounced. I am not arguing for or against any response by the guy, mind you, but you seem to be incapable of understanding what respect and rudeness actually are

Edit: I didn't initially read all of your comment because the first half was mind numbingly stupid, but figured I should give you a chance to maybe make a decent point at the end. Which you didn't, it just got stupider. If her idea of a date is a guy and her friend, that's perfectly fine and acceptable. She should have said so when they were planning the date. It's on her if she couldn't communicate what she wanted properly and so still, even in your scenario, she is firmly in the wrong

[โ€“] skunk@lemmy.zip 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You're a lost cause

Well I'm not a "cause" either, you can make your case as leave it. This appeal to "thats just what you're supposed to do" is what people have been telling me all my life and I stopped caring completely for it. I kept contorting myself trying to anticipate whatever the fuck people are "supposed" to do but at some point I realised that I'm not gonna win either way and that no one was twisting themselves as much trying to anticipate what I wanted and I. Just. Dropped. It. I am physically incapable of caring less for it. I told you I'm almost allergic to that line and I meant it.

She should have said so when they were planning the date. It's on her if she couldn't communicate what she wanted properly and so still, even in your scenario, she is firmly in the wrong

so what? Like even if, so what? Genuinely please answer this, so what?

[โ€“] LostCarcosan@lemmy.today 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Exactly: so what? So what if the (assumedly) guy just left, or so what if he did just flirt with the friend? So what if they all had a big, goopy threesome? You were in here crashing out and having an emotional breakdown over a silly fake text about a situation that didn't happen, so I assumed it was an important thing to you that you were incorrect about. Figured I'd let you know so you could be better informed and make better opinions

[โ€“] skunk@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago

Are we really gonna pretend the advice about hitting on the other girl was not to "get back" at his date? Willfully obtuse...

Also the guy just leaving is exactly what I've been saying though ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ you all are just dogpiling with the same ๐Ÿ‚๐Ÿ’ฉ reason that it's somehow "not what you are supposed to do" despite me saying that I don't accept that and now are doing a thing about me "crashing out" lol protip for next time if a skunk lifts their tail: run

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