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Part 2: what if you found out their diagnosis 1 week after birth

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[โ€“] FunnyUsername@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

let me flip the question:

if you KNEW the child you were going to conceive had the same chance of the same condition, would you still have sex?

if you'd skip it, then i see no issues with an abortion.

we don't have foresight, but we do have hindsight. how we use it is important. nobody gets asked if they want to be alive. how dare anyone bring someone into a life of pain without their consent? part 2: if you don't take responsibility for your own disasters, you are the disaster.