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[–] TheIPW@lemmy.ml 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You're right, I missed that.

I personally use a reverse proxy and Wireguard setup to access remotely.

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Not something that unfortunately works as easily for me to connect my ailing mom's TV to, and do NOT want to manage the reverse proxy + cert + etc setup for a number of reasons

[–] matron1049@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

There are a ton of reverse proxy options that manage the cert for you

[–] PhAzE@lemmy.ca 1 points 55 minutes ago

The point is that you now have another app to manage or learn about just for remote viewing, and the general public can't and won't manage something like that. People like us, no problem, its easy, but my dad would never be able to, for example. He can install plex and just log in to an app anywhere to use it though.

Also, dont forget that many households have non-static IP addresses, so now you need more management for that issue (again, easy for us).

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

There's lots of reasons I don't want to set this up

[–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com -3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

But Jellyfin! It solves all your problems, you don’t have to pay for it (because fuck paying for software of any type even if it provides you some value), and did I mention Jellyfin‽

Why aren’t you using it yet? Are you a plex sympathizer? Get outta here with that!

What?

I don’t care if you have a good use case for using plex / Emby / Kodi / VLC / WMC / etc; you will assimilate and use Jellyifn!

JELLYFIN!!!!!11!1!1!1!1!. /s

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

Jellyfin once located my lost puppy. Which Plex had stolen.

[–] PhAzE@lemmy.ca 1 points 51 minutes ago

Damn, Jellyfin can swim through land, too.

[–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 13 hours ago

I believe it! Emby probably kicked the dog whole plex stole it.

[–] Dultas@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah it can be more limiting. Personally I got lucky and my mom's TV runs Android so I could just install a wireguard client.

I will probably at some point bridge her network with mine since I want to install a TrueNAS box at her house for remote backup. So the VPN client will be moot at that point.

[–] buffing_lecturer@leminal.space 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

How do you go about doing that?

[–] Dultas@lemmy.world 0 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Which part? For the TV there was literally a wireguard app. I just had to install it on the TV and configure the connection to my wireguard server.

For the bridging I gave her my old router which I haven't tested but I believe should support VPN bridging. I already have her on a subnet that won't conflict with my network for that reason.

[–] med@sh.itjust.works 1 points 16 hours ago

FYI, scrcpy can be an excellent tool for remote support, but you'd better trust the network the interface is on

[–] SpacePirate@feddit.nu -1 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (2 children)

If you have a machine at her place that is on most of the time you can have tailscale on that device and then make it ssh into itself with ssh portforwarding on!

Edit: You can also selfhost headscale and do the same as the comment below said

[–] CorrectAlias@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

My mom lives 900 miles away and she can barely turn a computer on

[–] nieceandtows@programming.dev 1 points 12 hours ago

I set up a free dns from duckdns.org and pointed it to my jellyfin server. All my parents had to do was to use that https://randomserver.duckdns.org/ as the server url in the jellyfin app.

[–] SpacePirate@feddit.nu 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah then this might not be a great idea for you, unless you have the possibility to fix a machine if you visit. But I want to make it clear this is not a fix all thing just trying to help :D

[–] skittle07crusher@sh.itjust.works 3 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

What in the goddamn fuck, sir

Step 1) Install tailscale (headscale also exists if you wanna fully self-host it) Step 2) Done, solved

[–] SpacePirate@feddit.nu 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

That doesn't slove the problem if your Smart TV doesn't support tailscale or something like Wireguard. Using another machine connected to a VPN like for example Tailscale/Headscale and then using ssh portforwarding allows you to access the service(jellyfin) on the device without support.

It would be like this:

Jellyfin <-- Tailscale/Headscale <--- Machine forwarding the jellyfins port <-- Smart TV

This can be done with a command like this:

ssh -L 0.0.0.0:8096:jellyfin_tailnet_ip:8096 -f -N user@machine

[–] hereiamagain@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 hours ago

Most people are not gonna go that route unfortunately. I want to love JF, but the remote access is a big sticking point, especially for non tech relatives.

It bugs me when people just say tailscale like that solves it all. It's very useful and solves a lot of problems, but not all. Unfortunately.