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For example, you put yourself through university by studying hard and working full time. Then someone says, you should thank god for giving you the strength. Like wtf do you mean, I busted my ass day in and day out but I'm supposed to thank god for it?

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[โ€“] ALoafOfBread@lemmy.ml 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

It bothers me when people aren't consistent.

Like when something good happens to them: god is rewarding me for being so good

When somehting bad happens to them: god is testing me and will reward me later for being so good

When something bad happens to someone they don't like: god is punishing them for being so bad

Or like how they pray to god for individual favors. Like "dear god even though I didnt study please let me do well on this test" as though god should care and give them special treatment for... nothing. Yet they claim to value hard work, god only gives you what you can handle, are generally fatalistic, etc.

[โ€“] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

It isn't meant to be consistent; it is meant to enforce the views of the church.

[โ€“] ALoafOfBread@lemmy.ml 1 points 9 hours ago

Meant by whom? The people who do things like this have different, personal motives. They aren't doing it to spread ideology, they're doing it to address specific ideological needs in irrational ways.