If you are cool enough to truly believe that then you are not mediocre, friend. Shitty is unfortunately the norm for men when it comes to patriarchy (At least in my experience), making you exceptional in this regard.

[–] felsiq@piefed.zip 16 points 1 week ago

IMO my value as a person shouldn’t be dependent on the people around me, so many guys being shitty makes them bad (and society fucked) but doesn’t make me better than I was. I strive for mediocrity and I’m proud to have achieved it by my own efforts, rather than just by default because the average got worse lmao

[–] youcantreadthis@quokk.au 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Do you shower daily not hit your partner know how to make yourself dinner and wipe your ass every time if so you're aheaf of the pack.

[–] felsiq@piefed.zip 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have no choice but to be ahead of the pack, because if they don’t shower or wipe their asses the smell behind them would be intolerable

[–] youcantreadthis@quokk.au 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Gay.