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[โ€“] Evkob@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'm glad you called them out on it because that's an insane thing to say to someone when you're about to get married.

In hindsight, I know I dodged a bullet, because marrying them would have meant remaining in a place that, for me, was a shithole that was killing me. So it was for the best if they rejected me.

Still, it's a pretty shitty thing to say to someone that had a crush on you and told you more than once.