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[–] glimse@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

You're playing the victim....again.

Have you always struggled with reading comprehension or is this a new development for you?

If you insist on getting the last word in, try to at least make it substantive

[–] Starduster75@lemmy.world 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Thank you for again telling me the situation. It is important that you elucidate on the weakness of my cognitive skills, to draw contrast to your own intellectual superiority. Perhaps you feel this is a conversation to be "won", or that you in some way are "holding ground". That is possibly your POV, though of course, I have no way to be sure.

What I do know is that having our opinions or thoughts called into question can psychologically put us on the defensive, feeling attacked. Identity-Protective Cognition hardens our stance, and we become unwilling to concede at all. Because existentially, it feels like a danger. It feels bad.

So what I will do is concede that we may both have succumb to such, as is cognitively standard, and quite prevalent in today's digital, social media filled society. I certainly become protective and defensive in situations involving my ethnic group. And I can easily see how one could become so in regards to perceiving someone taking your words out of context or over-inflating their impact.

There is a difference between being unintentionally insensitive and being racist or hateful. I do feel, personally, there may have been some unintentional insensitivity in the comment, but I do not think you are hateful of Jews. And please realize, I am telling you how it reads to me. Perhaps it reads differently to you; I do not have your contexting within my brain. But, you also do not have mine, and this is where the unintentional comes in.

Regardless, you are correct that this isn't productive. I am sure you are not a specifically bad person, and realize this was just a little Internet interaction. Words rarely ever have meaning standing alone. We do not share each other's perspectives, but likely are not really in conflict at all.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

You hopped into a silly conversation to accuse us of not taking antisemitism seriously.

And you gotta realize that this sarcastic overly-agreeable writing style you keep using is really not helping you beat the self-victimizing accusations.

I'm more than willing to change my behavior when I learn it's actually insensitive. But earlier, you said you know you're too sensitive and I agree. Why should I change for the 0.001% of people predisposed to being offended?

[–] Starduster75@lemmy.world -2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

First visualization: me shaking my head in near disbelief.

Second visualization: me realizing this is some twit on social media and no longer caring.

Third visualization: me considering the psychology in my head and laughing. Albeit uncomfortably.

Go be white and right, bro. Have the day you deserve.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

[edit] My original comment was a bit mean, forgive me if you already ready.

But I do want to say that I must have deserved a funny day because your reply made me laugh really hard, though maybe not in the way you intended.

[–] Starduster75@lemmy.world -2 points 5 days ago

Laughter is medicine for humanity. If you are laughing, there is hope.