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I've noticed this a lot too. Capitalism is like an abusive relationship on a society wide scale, using methods of control like "I don't want to make them mad" or "This is the best I could ever hope for, I should try and be grateful" not to mention love bombing, with showering people with endless slop and garbage to distract people.
Hustle grind culture stinks of this too. A lot of 'disappointed parent' speak to trigger people, followed by a lot of self improvement advice that boils down to 'Always blame yourself. You are weak. You aren't trying hard enough.'
Yeah, getting people to internalise systemic issues and discourage them from examining whether things are actually good for them or not.
It doesn't help seeing kiddos half my age with 8-digit bank accounts. I know "comparison is the thief of joy". It still stings.