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What men want (lemmy.world)

submitted 17 hours ago by The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world to c/whitepeopletwitter@sh.itjust.works

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[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz -3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Oh, because consent is about mind-reading?

What she wears doesn't imply consent, except for when she wants it to (without communicating that), and then it's her boyfriend's failure as a man for not magically picking up on that?

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 7 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

It never implies consent, and she hasn't said it does, and hasn't implied it does. Responding to an (apparent) attempt at seduction, which is what she actually wants, does not require one to do anything that requires consent. What do you think it involves? You think she wants him to climb aboard and start thrusting with no preamble? Can you imagine anything short of that that might make her happy?

[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Responding to an (apparent) attempt at seduction, which is what she actually wants, does not require one to do anything that requires consent.

What exactly do you think seduction is?

I was under the impression that consent is required for pretty much everything. So what exactly do you expect him to do?

"Hey, I noticed you're in your underwear. Does this mean you're propositioning me?"

You can obfuscate all you want by code switching whenever it's convenient for you. "I'm horny, so nothing that I want right now requires consent" versus "I'm not in the mood right now, so if you even look at me without my consent I will hold a grudge against you for the rest of my life."

Just don't be surprised when people stop putting up with your bullshit. The dude is probably focusing on his game because he doesn't feel like being teased, toyed with, and accused of heinous shit.

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 1 points 14 minutes ago

"Hey, I noticed you're in your underwear. Does this mean you're propositioning me?"

Rewrite this so it doesn't sound like it was written by chatgpt and you'd have an appropriate response, for example.

Or he could put an arm around her, or lean in for a kiss, or whatever. The rest of your comment smells off. Stick to what's in the original if we're still talking about that, or else justify why what you're saying is realistic.