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Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

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[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 29 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I am probably just old enough that this kinda 'makes sense', but back when I was growing up:

  1. Porn 'addiction' was not at all a prevalent thing, in the true sense of an actual addiction. It was much, muuch more common that if you just had or looked at any porn, maybe a couple times a week or month, not to the point that it was actively interfering with your life... this was decried and stigmatized as an addiction. If you were a teen and had a porno mag, and didn't throw it out after your parent found it, fairly good chance you are now a 'porn addict', time for an intervention from the local pastor.

  2. Because of these more prudish, second wave of Satanic Panic type norms in the 90s and 00s... a gf with a 'porn addiction' would again likely not have a literal addicition, it would probably indicate just that they were an introvert, who is kinky/kink-curious, or even just sex-curious, had a manga that had some nudity in it, where nudity is potentially 'her dress is too low cut' or 'a form fitting body suit is functionally nudity'.

Like, if somebody was being called a 'porn addict' in the 90s/00s... fairly good chance that just there was a story going around that they had watched or viewed porn once, and been caught.

Not saying theres 0 chance they were an actual addict, nor that just generally 'seeking a porn addict gf' would be totally non problematic...

But back when Pokemon was evil because it 'teaches evolution' and Harry Potter was Satanic because 'Witchcraft!' ... yeah, porn consumption/viewing was often extremely overblown and pathologized/demonized.

And I do literally mean demonized, in some cases. 'The demon of lust has possessed you', type of shit.

[–] kewwwi@lemmy.world 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

you overthinked, therefore you overamed 😉

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Am autistic, overthinking is what I do.

Thus: overamed?

over... armed?

over... abed?

over ... aimed?

[–] thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

This is what happens when one puts Decartes before the whores.

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 2 weeks ago

That's just... bravo, truly, very well done!

[–] square@lemmy.zip 8 points 2 weeks ago
[–] tr0xy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Wait, Pokemon wasn’t evil because it had ghosts and shit?

I guess what one views as normal/healthy porn consumption differs. I wouldn’t blink an eye if somebody watched porn 1h every day.

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

At least in my personal experience, and the clips I've seen of, and stories that made it into a newspaper of evangelical Christians... it was almost always that Pokemon evolved.

Yes, some of them connected it to other kinds of... pagan spiritual practices, which they mostly made up in their own heads based on movies and that one time they read a book.

But yeah, same, 1hr of porn a day, for like, an adult?

Grab that bag, earn that nut, rofl.