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Hey I'm new here!! :3

For context, I'm pre-HRT but have appointments coming up.

I'm curious. What do you do when you get pangs of denial? I have written dowm a list of logical reasons of why I'm a tgirl. But that doesn't change the fact that sometimes I feel like I'm in denial of something I logically know myself to be.

Thanks, have a nice day!!

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[–] phr@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

get a list of the effects of T. ask yourself: " do i want those effects?" you already expirience them, i guess. but do you like what it does to you in the grand view? i struggeled bc breasts weren't on my wishlist but a certain strength was ... it is abt the majority here. by now, breasts are very much on my wishlist; denial yk ...

That's a great easy to look at it, thank you

No way, that's so clever! I'll have to try this tomorrow!! ^.^