Keeping dyed blond hair especially when trying to make it look natural and having it thst way all the time is fucking hard snd really bad for your hair as well. I have silver hair for 6 months and red hair for 6 cause the silver means bleaching the absolute fuck out of it and then introducing more ammonia and whatever the fuck chemicals make it look like anime hair and maintenance is like...nuts. the rest of the year theres a red hair mask available around me that coats yer hair instead of dying it and gives it uv shelter to recover. There isnt really any way to stay dyed blond in a convincing as natural way that doesn't totally fuck your hair up. Maybe super rich people with daily high level salon access but even a contrapoints rich person is wrecking their hair keeping that up. I also dont know her natural hair colour, dont care to speculate and dont really wanna dunk on her for her looks, I just know my way around hair.

[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Oh yeah, I have no idea about Contra and I'm not trying to say anything remotely negative about people dying their hair, I just know in film especially a lot of the actresses are prompted to have dyed blonde hair for completely apolitical reasons.

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It was more the comment chain im on than what you specifically said there. I just had technical knowledge to haul down in response to what you said.

[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

heart-sickle Thank you for sharing. You probably would not be surprised to hear that I read about even pretty rich actresses complaining about the dye fucking up their hair.

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There's no winning for women either, ive met a few naturally blonde women who just do have the Hollywood Aryanism and get trrsted like they're trying to fo Hollywood shit or theyre fake or whatever.

[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Absolutely, it's awful, on the one hand you get mercilessly objectified and on the other hand people basically call you a wh*re for getting objectified. At least, that's the treatment some people receive.

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

A never ending shifting standard to just earn the right to be treated as human. Makeup and hair shit and dressing neat is also really fun! Straight dudes are missing out and when they try they look like Dave Navarro. But at least theyre trying I guess. My hair goes naturally into hair metal and there is no way im gonna cut that short and not take advantage

[–] demeritum@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Just get a good wig at this point.

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 1 points 1 day ago

I know what im doing and its fun