OOTD for a date with my fiancée and a night out with friends.
Don’t judge the repeated pants… laundry hasn’t happened yet 😅😬
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Thanks, I had a lot of fun. In the forearm I have a Baphomet and in the arm I have a doll/robot that reminds me of the baby face toy from Toy Story. I have 12 tattoos, maybe I’ll show them off sometime, but first I have to do something about a HP tattoo I have 😪
Glad to hear! :D
Cool! Don't rush it. One step at a time. (This is more of a mantra to myself. Please disregard if it felt... Unsolicited xD)
Haha no worries at all, it’s actually really good advice. I do tend to rush things sometimes. For example, my HP tattoo was a bit of an impulse, and I don’t regret it because of that, but more because of everything that came out later… I probably wouldn’t have got it if I’d thought it through more, since I was a bit short on money at the time. Now I’m thinking of covering or modifying it, but if I rush that too I’ll probably end up regretting it again 😅
I can relate to that impulsivity. 😅 I think it's a fine line to walk: too much control and you end up with a life in which you do nothing but worry about tomorrow. Too much impulsivity and you end up with everything you don't really need. For example, I just bought a whole series of manga that on an impulse seemed like a great idea, because it gave me good... Feelings? I dunno. 😂 Did I actually want the series? Am I going to read it? Nope. 🤣
I'm sure an experienced tattoo artist can come up with some neat modifications, unless of course you already have something in mind. 😊