this post was submitted on 03 Apr 2026
14 points (100.0% liked)

Melbourne

2409 readers
32 users here now

This community is a place created for the people of Melbourne and Victoria. We are a positive, welcoming and inclusive community. We might not agree about everything, but we always strive to stay civil and respectful.

The focus of our discussions is based around things that affect Victoria, but we are also free to discuss our local perspective on wider issues. Or head to the regular Daily Random Discussion thread to talk about anything.

Full Community Guidelines

Ongoing discussions, FAQs & Resources (still under construction)

Adoption Certificate for Nellie, the Daily Thread numbat (with thanks to @Catfish)

Feedback & Suggestions

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[โ€“] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

TW suicideSo apparently this is complicated grief. Currently receiving extra support because of the strong urge to surrender the visitor cat and end my life. And the contamination ocd is going crazy.

Seeking help, waiting on grief counseling, bag packed in case of hospital stay, considering a dose of antidepressants that would aid mood, yada yada.

This sucks.

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

so many hugs

Is there anything we could do? Would you like a visit?

[โ€“] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 3 points 3 days ago

๐Ÿซ‚

Thanks, Iโ€™m hoping Iโ€™ll be ok.

[โ€“] PeelerSheila@aussie.zone 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Honestly: Thankyou for helping yourself. You've given so much help to others and I'm not really sure what to say but I love your presence here and would hate to lose it. Socially awkward of me and I'm not a real huggy person, but I'd offer you one of my awkward A-frame hugs if I was there.

[โ€“] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 4 points 3 days ago

Thanks ๐Ÿซ‚

[โ€“] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I'm sorry you're feeling this way :(( it's very very shit and it breaks my heart

I know I probably I couldn't say or do something to help much, but just know that selfishly, I think you are an incredible person and would hate to lose you on here. You deserve a life as wonderful as you are. Hope things start looking up soon. Glad you're taking some steps that can help <3

Please stay safe.

[โ€“] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 5 points 3 days ago

Thanks Low ๐Ÿซ‚

Iโ€™ll do my best