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[–] PugJesus@piefed.social 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Interactions with people aren't prizes, and shouldn't be conceptualized as such.

"Humans have needs and desires" and "Humans should conceptualize the fulfillment of their needs and desires as separate from the people they interact (and resulting consequences) with to achieve them" are two different things.

Most basic idea, do unto others. People sometimes want to feel wanted, even in just a purely carnal sense; people generally do not want to feel treated like an object, an abstract, or a piece of meat in the process.