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Siiiiiiiiiiiigh
Why are the cis like this
By this logic, anyone who isn't Black shouldn't talk for all of Black History Month. It's an absurd expectation.
That's a false equivalent, Black History Month is a full month, TDoV is one day.
No one is suggesting a total ban on speech. We’re pointing out the difference between participating in a conversation and directing it. The goal of a day like TDoV is for trans people to be the subject of the conversation, rather than the audience for someone else’s memories. Recognizing that distinction isn't absurd, it's just basic respect for the purpose of the day.
You're still saying your supporters have no right to a voice unless they're exactly like you. That is a very slippery slope, since, ostensibly, the point of a day of awareness is to promote conversation. That's exactly the sort of argument people make to oppose trans rights in the first place.
I didn't say that.
Then what are you saying? Because from my perspective, you're trying to proclaim activism without having taken Activism 098.
First day on beehaw as a trans woman. Sure do feel welcome here, thank you Powderhorn.