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Yep. She also tried to convince me I was abused as a child. I wasn't. She was just trying to maximize my vulnerability to weaponize it so I couldn't leave her, because she was one of those crazy co-dependent types.
Okay yeah that's also just bad science, if we're completely ignoring what her endgame seems to have been.
I guess that makes sense. The most effective abusers are ones who keep you guessing about how they're going to treat you from moment to moment.
Well, I'm glad you're doing okay single. Ideally that's kind of the best mind state to be in no matter what your future holds. Send an update if you do ever hit it off with anyone who treats you right, though. I kind of need to hear more stories about men healing and recovering from shit.