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MJ calls what happened to her in Zion national park “small ‘T’ trauma”. She knows women have experienced worse from their partners. But she still feels the anger of being left behind on a hike by her now ex. “It brings up stuff in my body that maybe I have not cleared out yet,” she said.

Five years ago, MJ and a new partner – he was not exactly her boyfriend, and the pair were not exclusive – traveled from Los Angeles to Utah for an adventure getaway. MJ, who is 38 and works in PR, was looking forward to exploring Zion’s striking scenery; its vast sandstone canyon and pristine wading trails were on the list. But on the morning of their big hike, MJ was not feeling well. She could not shake the feeling that something was “off”; indeed, MJ would learn on this trip that her partner was seeing other women.

As they made their way up Angel’s Landing, MJ’s partner started walking faster than her. “I could tell it was getting on his nerves that I was slow,” she said. “I was like, ‘Fuck it, just go ahead of me.’” He did without hesitation.

When she caught up at the top of the mountain, they took a picture together. Then her partner hiked down the mountain with a woman he had met on the way up, leaving MJ to finish by herself. They broke up shortly after that trip. (MJ asked to be referred to by her initials for the sake of speaking openly about a past relationship.)

Last month, MJ opened TikTok and heard the phrase “alpine divorce”, a label she now attaches to her experience in Zion.

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[–] stoly@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

You're overlooking that men tend to be attracted to this sort of activity more and may have greater experience. When they invite their inexperienced girlfriend, they have a duty of care towards them. You're right, sex doesn't matter and this could be reversed, but you need to ask yourself where the statistic lie.

This is not sexist. You've found the wrong conclusion.

[–] non_burglar@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

men tend to be attracted to this sort of activity more and may have greater experience

I live in hiking prime area. This is not true in any way.

[–] stoly@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

This is why anecdotal evidence has little use in the real world.

[–] ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net -1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yes but the story of MJ doesn't talk about experience. It's just talks about gender.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

because it's rage bait. It's not about hiking, it's about men being awful to women and fanning the flames of gender war rage.

[–] HellsBelle@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

fanning the flames of gender war rage.

Seeing as that's you doing it I would think it's only you who can stop it.