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Got my first stares today (feddit.org)

submitted 1 day ago by cows_are_underrated@feddit.org to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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So, as you probably all know, last Sunday was the international womens day. To celebrate some people organized a "no mens" party (everyone was welcome except men). So I got all dressed up (wore a very cozy wool pullover, a skirt and some leggings), did some makeup and went there, since I was helping out at the bar. Another thing I should is, that I am just 3 months into HRT and therefore am not anywhere near passing (especially since I am very tall and have quite a deep voice). Since we were two people at the bar and there werent that many people I quickly went to get some food. So I went to the next "restaurant", ordered and sat down to wait. this place was focused on "takeaway food" and is therefore quite small. There was this one man, that sat there with a glass of beer in a hand and this motherfucker did not even try to hide, that he was staring at me. He literally turned his head whenever I moved. I guess it wasnt in a sexual way, but I guess he has never seen a "man" wear a skirt and leggings. He did not do anything else, but I was never so glad I could leave a place.

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[–] lwhjp@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 15 hours ago

I can't help but imagine you blew his mind, and he was staring at you thinking, "holy shit, you can do that? Where can I get a dress in my size?"

Well, probably not, but anyway.