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Long road, long struggle to get housing has been over for a month. It took.... 608 days from becoming on the streets homeless (not even crashing couches) But I moved into my apartment on February 1st with help from a housing org!

Now what?

I literally feel feral, idk how to connect with people, lost most social skills from the sheer dehumanization and I dont leave my apartment much because I'm afraid ill lose it or won't be able to come back or some neurotic shit i cant help but to think.

I guess what im asking is; Formally unhoused loves of hexbear, what steps did you take to help get you back to "normal" social functioning/out of survival mode?

picture is my gfs lovely orange baby named Athena

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[–] gramxi@hexbear.net 9 points 13 hours ago

as a former hikikomori, this is legitimately good advice and part of how I got out of my years-long rut. That and finally having healthcare to do therapy for my multiple conditions.