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Whats your advice to the younger folks of Lemmy? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 week ago by crash_thepose@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Mine:

Learn a second language and keep up with the language your parents speak. You will regret being a brat about not wanting to speak this language especially as your family members pass.
The only opinions about you that really matter are from the people you respect and who respect you back
Being a kind humble person, who leads their political convictions with curiosity and not self righteousness is important. As that one person said: "I am no hero and neither are you."
Don't throw out your old media (mix cds, tapes, records, photos, zinee, etc) because you think they're embarrassing. They either will not be embarrassing later or they will become expensive and you can tell them for mad bucks.

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[–] cookiemonster@beehaw.org 6 points 1 week ago

Do your best. Make the best choice you can and consciously decide against second-guessing yourself later. Feel free to learn about yourself from any inclination to second-guess, it could be your morals chaffing against your actions.

Be kind. To those you love and those you don’t. Give yourself some grace when imperfections monopolize your focus.

Learn about yourself. It’s going to be a lot easier to make decisions when you know yourself.