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I stopped using ๐Ÿ‘ IRL because in many cultures it is analogous to ๐Ÿ–•. And the more I thought of it, the vulgarer it felt.

Switched to ๐Ÿ‘Œ as it is widely understood but has a US/fash undertone to it. I am aware of it but idk if other people are.

I do kind of need a non-subcultural hand gesture to communicate positive sentiments, particularly across language and culture barriers. Not in a position to be introducing new gestures.

What's the best you think?

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[โ€“] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[โ€“] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago (2 children)

It's like showing them a vaginas

The worst thing of all

[โ€“] Commie_Chameleon@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Weird I thought terf island loved thinking about genitals

[โ€“] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago

Yeah, but only to understand the best way to stay away from the genitals

[โ€“] hellinkilla@hexbear.net 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

you can always flick your tongue around in it.