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[–] mokokunai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

I'm in an LGBTQIA+ oriented community in Discord and have been there for the better part of 3+ months. EVEN IN THERE where we're all pretty tolerant and cool with each others identities, there's a couple of people like this. Sometimes in voice chat it gets a bit heated with the whole "Illegal immigrants thing". One of the member's main arguments or points of sentiment is the "they can't even speak OUR language" and I'm always like "buddy, please... there are so many reasons why x person can't speak y language; that doesn't mean anything".

If you call them out like that person in the post OP sometimes it kinda clicks that there is another person just like them in the other side of the 'evil language' and it disarms them a bit (like a slap in the face). Idk I'm new to all of this I used to be the mate to always turn the blindside to any and every political/social discourse I'm trying lmao

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Never assume that just because somebody is a member of a minority they're not prejudiced assholes.

It's exactly because we're all humans that assholes are equally distributed across all groups defined by things other than behavior and political beliefs - no such group is inherently composed of better or worse individuals than other groups.

People in groups being oppressed are less likely to behave as assholes simply because the assholes in those groups fear reprisals far more than the assholes in the dominant groups and in my experience plenty of people who behave meekly because of being part of an oppressed group will start behaving as assholes if given power and immunity to reprisals.

[–] mokokunai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 47 minutes ago (1 children)

That's awesome. Thank you. I've seen a bit of that throughout all my life, feeling like I don't belong in any subculture cause of something of this sort. It's always something, I don't want to get to the conclusion that life sucks and everyone sucks that's kind of edgy but a % of that is so true no matter the subculture haha. I just have to do my own thing i guess

I appreciate that btw<3

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 26 minutes ago* (last edited 20 minutes ago)

For avoidance of doubt my point is in no way a criticism of mankind:

  • A % are always assholes.
  • Also a % are always genuinely good people.
  • The bulk of people are in the middle and kinda go with the cultural zeitgeist.

As far as I can tell, there are no more of the first kind than the second, though it's my impression that the third kind, in the middle, are at times in average more pro-social or more anti-social depending on the predominant culture of a place and time.

In the current Greed Is Good environment dominant in the West I would say that the bulk of people who aren't internally driven towards being a good person or being a selfish asshole tend toward "What's in it for me" anti-social behavior if only because that attracts more rewards and less social pushback, though as I said and in my experience of living in a couple of countries, local culture also has a big say in that.

[–] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 0 points 2 hours ago

there is another person just like them in the other side of the 'evil language'

Just watched a clip about it lmao https://youtu.be/RTB8dMqGm3U?t=2m2s