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How was your week? (feddit.uk)

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[–] yakko@feddit.uk 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

We got through the last week before my wife gets back into her work! First day was today, so far so good.

Swear to god, her old bosses handicapped her from the start and ran her out at the first chance. After three years of uni, they almost blew up her career in the hangar, and to all appearances it was deliberate. It set us back ten months, at minimum. It is only a faint exaggeration to say her entire career was hunted for sport.

Anyway. It's been a fucking nightmare and I'm just shaking with hope that we're finally back to a dual income household. She supported me when I was at uni and I was more than happy to repay the favour. That said, there wasn't a kid in the picture back then. It was a massive relief to get her into a job a year and a half ago, and at this point I'm too wary to feel relieved.

Next week I'll have nice updates, no more trauma dumping from me. You okay?

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 1 points 16 hours ago

Unis are businesses these days. My last prof took on a postdoc who secured her own independent funding, but needed his name on the application for formality reasons. He took her funding, badmouthed her to the entire uni, and cast her out of the lab. Vampire tactics seem to be pretty common now in this economy.

The nepotism within Unis are also shockingly bad. The child of a professor is practically guaranteed a tenureship track in academia, as the professor's can stack bad candidates vying for the same position when the application comes. Anyone from outside their circle needs to either swear fealty to some professor or fight tooth and nail.

There's a recent blog post about this from a German researcher that resonated with me on this. I hope your wife's doing okay.

I've also just lost a good revenue stream and am wondering how I'm gonna cope, but I'm sure I will one way or another.