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Just to start off, know that I have zero experience with this. I'm only looking into doing this because I'm absolutely sick and tired of centralised services (in this case Discord) turning to shit, and want to start a Discord-like/alternative federation between my friends.

Prosody seems to be the easiest to set up, and has all the available capabilities for a server that allows Discord-like functionality (text, group voicecall, streaming). Movim is the client that makes use of all that.

But I don't have a clue how to set up a Prosody server with Podman. I've never done this before. I started by downloading the Prosody image through Podman, then tried running it, which prompted the creation of a container. Kept everything at the defaults and tried running it, but it didn't work.

What do I do from here?

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[–] aksdb@lemmy.world 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

The beauty of XMPP is this: you can use any server, and any client, and you can talk to anyone connected to the larger XMPP network, even if they made different server/client choices than you did.

That’s a very optimistic and naive view. XMPP consists of a shit ton of extensions, and different clients implement different subsets of these. So it’s very possible that two different clients fail to do an audio or video call, because the other decided to use a different extension than the other for not implement it at all.

[–] impolitecarry@lemmy.wtf 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Thats a very fair point. My mistake was, that when I say "talk to each other", my brain implicitly says "talk via text over messages". Even then omemo is not universally supported yet, I think, so, encrypted messages can also be hit or miss.

But in OP's case, this still kind of works, in the sense of, it doesn't matter which instance of movim they and their friends are on, they will still be able to intercommunicate, right?

[–] aksdb@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

Sure. I also don’t want to shit talk XMPP. I prefer XMPP over Matrix any day. But it can be tricky (just like Matrix; which is funny, since Matrix set out to improve on the mistakes they claimed XMPP made).