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Discussion Thread 🚂 Thursday 19 February 2026 (aussie.zone)

submitted 2 months ago by YarraByte@aussie.zone to c/melbourne@aussie.zone

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[–] StudChud@aussie.zone 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

For a different perspective: I was 2 months single, and still living with my ex, when I met my now-partner. Together since Jan 2019.

It can work out. Unless you got icks for other reasons, I'd suggest at least a third date to see where his head is at.

[–] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Thanks for sharing your perspective! And happy seven years :)

[–] StudChud@aussie.zone 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Aw thank you! I'm not saying you should give this guy another chance btw, follow your gut instinct 100% with dating!!

Just that it might not mean anything to him/affecting him negatively :)

I trust you know this dude better than us, so ultimately listen to what your heart is telling you 💜

[–] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 4 points 2 months ago

Thanks Spud <3