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I don't understand why that's a red flag
Three weeks is quick. Five months is fine.
It seems that YOU want to be single though. Which is fine. You seem to finding any reason not to date these guys.
I think that's the thing with relationships, if you're not prepared to get hurt you're not really committing to them. It's a Catch-22 for sure.
There's nothing wrong with being careful.
The problem is when that care builds a wall around you.
And that you become comfortable behind it.
My 2 cents.
That's a good thing right?
Excellent :)