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If you had to pick a good love story, you might think of something classic, like Jane Austen's Emma or Casablanca. Or maybe tragic, like Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin or Romeo and Juliet. Or possibly cozy, like Heated Rivalry or Netflix's Nobody Wants This. What probably doesn't come to mind is a video game love story, and there's a good reason for that. Despite the appearance of variety, video game romances only come in one type. And it hardly even counts as a romance.

Games are still young as a storytelling medium, so the lack of memorable love stories compared film or literature is hardly surprising. What is surprising is just how little romance has changed in over three decades. In 1994, Konami's Tokimeki Memorial made popular the idea of dating in video games. It was hardly what you might call romantic, with its stat-based progress and checklist approach to relationships. But it set a precedent for how to Do Romance in games, and later titles, like Harvest Moon, built on that formula. By 2000, the likes of Baldur's Gate 2 added a stronger element of personality, with more complex characters who played important roles in bigger stories, but not necessarily in each other's lives. Relationships consisted of saying the right thing at the right time and then, like magic, love occurs. 26 years later, game romances are still written like they were in 2000, with obvious exceptions like (usually) not being as sexist anymore and occasionally being decent enough to show more than one type of love.

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[–] Nacarbac@hexbear.net 1 points 2 hours ago

Some of that seems to be that BG3's crazy level of reactivity was really hard to manage without glitches like "romance points" accumulating way too fast (the plot is also like a few weeks long?) - if they dropped a few of the weaker characters it'd have massively reduced the complexity.

Owlcat did a more traditional text-heavy isometric, and the romances there were better paced by being linked to the time progression and chapters of the story... and also just a lot easier to avoid if that wasn't to your taste. Hell, you could even break them all by pulling the "Become Really Awful" lever.

...though I suspect that BG3 being the horny game, they were "politely encouraged" to have the horny happen sooner.