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I was just asking a question? In fact almost the exact question you answered? Your comment would just be constructive instead of rude without the first two sentences. Thanks for the info anyways.
Despite their best intentions they can't protect their child forever. They need to have an honest discussion together so op understands why, but I still feel it's reasonable to try and do something to grow themselves. It's not going to get easier as the family gets older and the parents eventually can no longer work themselves.
I'm pretty sure you just don't understand how questions work...
But the answer to that one is "no, that is not all you were doing".
And I made another comment to OP, the more important part here is for you to understand if you don't know the answer but still want to comment, its honestly very easy to research to find out first. You could have just googled "working on SSI" and gained the same knowledge. Instead you blindly reinforced OP that they're right like an AI chatbot would.
That blind support without understanding is dangerous, but I don't think I'm going to be able to explain why in a way you can understand. I think you'll just continue to get upset someone said what you were doing is dangerous so you're just going to argue if it was intentional instead of thinking about the real problem: people you may harm if you continue acting like this.
Whether you're right or not is irrelevant if nobody listens to you because of your tone.
Which I did to OP...
Like I told the person spreading dangerous misinformation:
I don't expect that to work, but thats as much effort as I'm putting in