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The problem is, even if I am willing to deal with some inconveniences, many others aren't. How am I going to move a server with >100 active users and multiple thousand inactive ones? And what about the six others I have that fit that description? There's quite a few servers I could go without, but around a dozen that I'd much prefer not to lose.
I've already been trying, but people don't like Revolt, Nerimity, Matrix, hell I tried Mattermost. Some people are fine with some of these platforms, but there is never any remote consensus.
At least some have cancelled their nitro subscription, making them a net loss for Discord in the future.
Discord has, despite everything, been my primary chat/social app and to switch to something else one has to uproot absolutely everything. That's sadly not feasible.
It's absolutely feasible; it's just not painless. The network effect is real. This is something most of us here on the fediverse should be well familiar with: I'd wager we've all left a big proprietary centralized platform for a smaller one with less content that doesn't exactly fit our needs. Yes, it can suck; yes, you'll miss out on content and discussions that you would have seen before; yes, you'll be fine in a year anyway.
That said, it sounds like Discord is doing some backpedaling at the moment, and that the vast majority of people won't have to do this. If that's so, there's some time before it enshittifies further. I'm going to use that to check out alternatives. My first step will be spinning up Matrix and a Discord bridge to see if that meets my needs. Then some of the other platforms, probably Stoat and Spacebar. I'm going to treat them as beta tests and give lots of feedback to the dev teams, which I hope will help incentivize development. I might even throw a few bucks at promising projects.
The ultimate end of centralized platforms is decay. It's time to get serious about Discord replacements, at least for me.
Leaving reddit for Lemmy is a solo thing. It's a personal choice, it doesn't effect the others around you at fucking all.
Leaving discord for other services effects everyone around you a FUCKING LOT.
That's the problem. You HAVE to bring your friends or not only are you giving up possibly the only way to communicate with them effectively but also fucking them over by basically threatening them with the loss of your friendship if they don't inconvenience themselves to try some stupid new app over a problem they don't see as remotely worth even giving a fuck about.
This is the problem most of us have right now. I have 3 servers with a total over nearly 2000 users combined. All 3 are talking about moving but the bare BARE minimum requirements in features and platform support doesn't exist anywhere.
Discord works on every OS with all its features basically. Not a single other platform can say that. Someone somewhere gets fucked because this or that is isn't fully supported. Or some key feature doesn't work right.