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Anyone else just sick of trying to follow guides that cover 95% of the process, or maybe slightly miss a step and then spend hours troubleshooting setups just to get it to work?

I think I just have too much going in my "lab" the point that when something breaks (and my wife and/or kids complain) it's more of a hassle to try and remember how to fix or troubleshoot stuff. I lightly document myself cuz I feel like I can remember well enough. But then it's a style to find the time to fix, or stuff is tested and 80%completed but never fully used because life is busy and I don't have loads of free time to pour into this stuff anymore. I hate giving all that data to big tech, but I also hate trying to manage 15 different containers or VMs, or other services. Some stuff is fine/easy or requires little effort, but others just don't seem worth it.

I miss GUIs with stuff where I could fumble through settings to fix it as is easier for me to look through all that vs read a bunch of commands.

Idk, do you get lab burnout? Maybe cuz I do IT for work too it just feels like it's never ending...

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[–] EncryptKeeper@lemmy.world 46 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (8 children)

If a project doesn’t make it dead simple to manage via docker compose and environment variables, just don’t use it.

I run close to 100 services all using docker compose and it’s an incredibly simple, repeatable, self documenting process. Spinning up some new things is effortless and takes minutes to have it set up, accessible from the internet, and connected to my SSO.

Sometimes you see a program and it starts with “Clone this repo” and it has a docker compose file, six env files, some extra fig files, and consists of a front end container, back end container. Database container, message queueing container, etc… just close that web page and don’t bother with that project lol.

That being said, I think there’s a bigger issue at play here. If you “work in IT” and are burnt out from “15 containers and a lack of a gui” I’m afraid to say you’re in the wrong field of work and you’re trying to jam a square peg in a round hole

[–] theparadox@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (5 children)

That being said, I think there’s a bigger issue at play here. If you “work in IT” and are burnt out from “15 containers and a lack of a gui” I’m afraid to say you’re in the wrong field of work and you’re trying to jam a square peg in a round hole.

Honestly, this is the kind of response that actually makes me want to stop self hosting. Community members that have little empathy.

I work in IT and like most we're also a Windows shop. I have zero professional experience with Linux but I'm learning through my home lab while simultaneously trying extract myself from the privacy cluster fuck that is the current consumer tech industry. It's a transition and the documentation I find more or less matches the OPs experience.

I research, pick what seems to be the best for my situation (often most popular), get it working with sustainable, minimal complexity, and in short time find that some small, vital aspect of its setup (like reverse proxy) has literally zero documentation for getting it to work with some other vital part of my setup. I guess I should have made a better choice 18 months ago when I didn't expect to find this new service accessible. I find some two year old Github issue comment that allegedly solves my exact problem that I can't translate to the version I'm running because it's two revisions newer. Most other responses are incomplete, RTFM, or "git gud n00b", like your response here

Wherever you work, whatever industry, you can get burnt out. It's got nothing to do with if you've "got what it takes" or whatever bullshit you think "you’re in the wrong field of work and you’re trying to jam a square peg in a round hole" equates to.

I run close to 100 services all using docker compose and it’s an incredibly simple, repeatable, self documenting process. Spinning up some new things is effortless and takes minutes to have it set up, accessible from the internet, and connected to my SSO.

If it's that easy, then point me to where you've written about it. I'd love to learn what 100 services you've cloned the repos for, tweaked a few files in a few minutes, and run with minimal maintenance all working together harmoniously.

[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Honestly, this is the kind of response that actually makes me want to stop self hosting. Community members that have little empathy.

why. it was not telling that they should quit self hosting. it was not condescending either, I think. it was about work.

but truth be told IT is a very wide field, and maybe that generalization is actually not good. still, 15 containers is not much, and as I see it they help with not letting all your hosted software make a total mess on your system.

working with the terminal sometimes feels like working with long tools in a narrow space, not being able to fully use my hands, but UX design is hard, and so making useful GUIs is hard and also takes much more time than making a well organized CLI tool.
in my experience the most important here is to get used to common operations in a terminal text editor, and find an organized directory structure for your services that work for you. Also, using man pages and --help outputs. But when you can afford doing it, you could scp files or complete directories to your desktop for editing with a proper text editor.

[–] theparadox@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

IT is a very wide field, and maybe that generalization is actually not good

That was what set me off. I was having a bad morning and misread the tone to be more dismissive than it likely was.

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