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[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Nobody uses dudette anymore, is dude now ungendered?

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I grew up in and adjacent to surf world. Nobody used dudette back then. It was always just dude.

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 0 points 23 hours ago (1 children)
[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 22 hours ago

I think the tides may be turning, then. As evidenced by this meme.

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

dudette was a bit niche, no one really used it.

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Exactly! Women can be a chill ass dude fr.

[–] Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Imo, dude has always been ungendered. I call everyone dude, though I do try to use other terms when talking with my mtf homies until they know that.

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Same and same, dude. But my perception isn't all that exists, and some women don't like being called dude. Just applying the logic of the dichotomies on display already.