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Dysphoria crisis. (lemmy.zip)

submitted 4 days ago by Shirow@lemmy.zip to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Okay, so It's my first post. I don't know if this count as NSFW but just in case I'll put a spoiler.

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So... today i felt something that I had never felt before a big dysphoria crisis when my wife started to be a bit intimate with me.

I won't go into details, but basically I never though that my bottom part would cause me this feeling. I ended up crying because of what I felt... I can't really put words on it...

I never felt that before when I was still an egg. (Well, some things were less enjoyable but never this).

I don't really know what to think about it, why did my body react this way. Even though I never though about any surgery about it.

Even yesterday, I thought like I don't understand why some people would have dysphoria about their genitals. I though that we need to deconstruct gender and we can be feminine or masculine with any organs and this hits me like a slap I'm the face.

I feel foolish.

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[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Thank you for sharing. That has got to be such a shock. I can't imagine how you must have felt.

I'm about a year on HRT, and I've been starting to feel some longing toward having female parts. I'm worried the same thing will happen to me.

Is it inappropriate to ask if I can PM you about this?

[–] Shirow@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 days ago

That's fine with me, you can.