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About fatphobia, how do you stay proudly loving your body and showing yourself off despite other's self-projections of their own insecurities onto you? (hexbear.net)
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I don't think I'm paranoid that people quietly think them. I may not always know when, but I know the sight of my stomach triggers people's insecurities.

One time I saw a woman with a stomach as big as an exercise ball in a crop top, and I've aspired to rock out as shamelessly as she did in her fully exposed stomach ever since.

This matters to me: I don't think she was pregnant. And I feel that means she didn't need a pregnancy as "excuse" to know she's entitled to proudly showing off her belly.

Btw, I think we've got to depict bellies as a sexy part of the body more. Even on abs, imo, a little pudge can look nice.

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[–] HexaSnoot@hexbear.net 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

good for her not being suicidal i guess but "life is worth enduring horrible torture" is not an opinion i am capable of understanding.

I meant to say her words helped me with SI. But I have breaks between my pain so I really can't speak for having chronic pain at the level where I can never perceive my physical beauty. I'm sorry you deal with that.