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"Just once I'd like these people to come in and engage with us" - 'Hello' - "Fuck off"
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this post was submitted on 14 Jan 2026
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This does seem like you had some kind of history of interaction with them, so you wouldn't just be anyone to them.
If you aren't just any random person offering them to talk, you must have known that your personal relationship is loaded with a preexisting emotional sentiment.
I would assume that you already knew exactly how they would respond and only made your offer intending to post the response here.
This is a perfect example of acting in bad faith imo.
funnily enough i've only interacted with hexbear one other time and that was then they federated with the entirety of Lemmy as a way to troll. Unfortunately for them they didn't consider that meant anyone could venture into hexbear. hexbear ended up defederating from all of lemmy within 24 hours. it was a humiliating defeat for them
my relationship with hexbear is one of their own circlejerking, they didn't even know I agreed with them on the US. They also don't know any of my views.
true i expected to be banned and i did predict this sort of response. thats why i offered in good faith a baseline of stuff we agree on. Regardless, it's telling that you're not calling them bad faith for knowingly making a bait post asking people to come talk with them, which will get anyone who actually engages with them banned
would it also not be further in bad faith if I were to use a different identity? that seems dishonest, no? and why is it on me if they can't control their emotions? i've had them harass me nonstop, attempt to dox me multiple times, threaten to kill me numerous times, create fake nudes and regularly spread false information about me, but I never get volatile, i'm a very relaxed goat
This is blatant revisionism.
Hexbear attempted to federate with the rest of Lemmy but some of the largest instances such as lemmy.world and lemmy.blahaj.zone defederated from us first. Lemmy.world in particular famously pre-emptively defederated us before ever being federated, as documented in this thread (where they also state that defederation should always be considered as a last resort, you know, pre-emptively defederating Hexbear as a last resort). We were federated with lemmy.blahaj.zone for longer but once they took in a huge number of refugees from reddit /r/196 their largest comm became a lifeboat comm for that subreddit, and they were very unhappy with us; this eventually devolved into a conflict where Ada, their lead admin, decided to defederate Hexbear as a way to appease the moderator of 196. Hexbear generally has a conciliatory attitude towards blahaj to this day and many of our trans users would like to refederate eventually, but this hasn't happened yet.
Generally, Hexbear likes being federated with more instances because it allows us to spread propaganda more. That's the incentive in place and we like doing it. Other instances are the ones who generally don't like receiving tons of people like myself who are very argumentative and post giant walls of text.
Hexbear remains federated with other big instances like SDF, reddthat, .ml (which you might call part of the tankie troika), and lemm.ee before it went down. We get wanderers from there all the time and we play nice with them.
(I didn't ban you, you tripped the spam prevention bot. You can contact the admins and they'll undo it)
Hexbear was the first one to defederate, not the other way around. Other instances were considering about going through with defederation, but Hexbear decided to make the call for them, partly because as I mentioned, Tankies such as yourself couldn't handle the wave of dissent in your safespaces.
If you know of the admins of blahaj, they've made it very clear they do not want their instance or their identity used as political fuel, which you are doing right now. I used to do the same until they politely explained that they don't like it, and I apologised and stopped. Perhaps that's one of the reasons you're still defederated, since you use identity as a weapon without actually caring for the rights of the identity. For example, you don't care about LGBTQ rights in Russia, Iran or China, all of which make same-sex marriage illegal, instead you defend these states. Why would an LGBTQ instance ever federate with that?
If you truly enjoyed being federated, then why was Hexbear always the first to defederate?
And you most certainly don't play nice. You told me to fuck off and then banned me lol