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The need for external validation, like from an established institution, is probably the most difficult thing I've had to try to overcome myself, in order to move my own views further to the left.
Every step I've taken is met with accusations of there being hidden personal motives, even though I make my interest and biases transparent.
Even when they can't find a personal interest in my moves, like when I was talking to an Italian friend about how he should organize with his locals, who are making an effort to make things better, and was simply giving him some tips to improve his own life, he just tells me literally: "I feel like you tell people this stuff to self validate yourself and do it to feel comfort."
It's incredibly frustrating and makes me want to lash out in anger, but I can't afford to do such things or the accusations of mental illness and hysteria start piling in. Liberals have even started telling me that caring for Gazans is actually a sign of me being mentally ill, overactive empathy they say.