this post was submitted on 11 Jan 2026
15 points (85.7% liked)

Lesbians

678 readers
31 users here now

A community for lesbians, people whose loved ones are lesbians, people who want information about lesbians, queer people, and allies! Trans lesbians are lesbians and are welcome.

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone
15
how do i help my new partner? (piefed.social)
submitted 3 weeks ago by therealverobiscuit@piefed.social to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone
2 comments fedilink hide all child comments
 

so my new partner (im poly and my new partner is genderfluid mtf) is mentally ill just like me. we are both lgbtq (she is androsexual and heteroflexible so im an exception bc im technically fem enby) and i am pan. she also self harms a lot, threatens to take her life, and does drugs from her older friends but so far only weed. she is 14 and a freshman. how can i help her???

i am also 14 and a freshman btw, she turns 15 in july and me this month.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 3 weeks ago

Make sure she's being safe with the drugs. Also, talk to a trusted adult, counselor, maybe a suicide hotline if those work, I never used one.